The Divorce Mediation Process

What to expect during the divorce mediation process

Divorce mediation consists of several different steps, leading to the creation of a divorce agreement. Once signed by both you and your spouse, the divorce agreement signals the end of your marriage.

As your divorce mediators, our primary goal is to guide you through the divorce mediation process, making the entire experience as civilized, productive, and swift as possible.

If you’re considering divorce mediation and would like to learn more about the process, we invite you to schedule a free 30 minutes, no obligation consultation where you will meet with one of our seasoned divorce mediators who will go over your situation, thoroughly explain the process, and answer all of your questions. 

To schedule a free, no obligation session call 800-343-2147 or

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Step 1 - Determining the Primary Issues

During the first stage of your divorce mediation process we will identify all the issues that need to be incorporated into your divorce agreement. During your first consultation or introductory session, we will get an overview of your personal situation and determine the best strategy to attain a mutual agreement.

We will assist you in making educated decisions by determining the issues and information necessary to help you reach an agreement. Our experienced Boston and MA divorce mediators will make it easier for you and your spouse to effectively communicate your needs, desires, and expectations.

 In addition, we will establish some basic ground rules regarding the mediation process. This will include things such as:

      - Full transparency and willingness to share relevant information.

      - Discussion rules that will give you and your spouse the opportunity to express your views without inhibition

      - Confidentiality

Step 2 - Collecting and Analyzing Information

During this step of the process, your Massachusetts divorce mediator will ensure that all information necessary for the mediation process is available. It is critical that all pertinent information is discussed openly and truthfully throughout the divorce mediation process. No relevant information can be kept hidden by either you or your spouse in order for the process to be successful and effective.

There may be instances when you may want additional consultation with outside professionals—accountants, therapists, real estate agents, house appraisers, child specialists, etc.—depending on the specific issues you will be faced with.

Step 3 - Negotiation and Mediation Sessions

Once we’ve been able to determine which issues need to be discussed and all relevant information is available, we will begin the negotiation process.

We will address each individual issue until an agreement is reached that is mutually acceptable to you and your spouse. Discussions will be facilitated by your divorce mediator, who will ensure that they are productive. He or she will make sure that you and your spouse have an opportunity to express your feelings and views, preventing any decisions from being made by coercion or under pressure.

Your MA divorce mediator can provide you with common practice and legal background regarding areas of contention to provide you and your spouse with an objective perspective during your discussions. 

Your divorce mediator's role is not to determine who is wrong or right. His or her job is simply to assist you in communicating with one another, ensure that every issue is covered, and to make sure all considerations are taken into account.

Step 4 - The Final Written Divorce Agreement

Your mediator will draft your divorce agreement once final decisions have been made. Once a divorce agreement has been drafted, you and your spouse have the opportunity to present it to separate attorneys for review. 

The next step will be to finalize the divorce agreement and present it in court for approval in addition to the court’s uncontested divorce papers. Your divorce will be final and legal once the divorce agreement and papers receive approval.

We understand that this is a great deal of information to take in and you probably have quite a few questions you wish to ask before making any further decisions. For that reason, we offer a complimentary, no obligation 30-minute consultation during which you can learn more about which kind of divorce mediation process will be most effective for your specific situation.

To schedule a free, no obligation session call 800-343-2147 or

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